Monday, June 29, 2015

Sweet, bright and funny - yet health and lifestyle are very important

Trying my best to move on from dejection by being silently declined by someone who I really liked, I reinstalled Tinder on my old BlackBerry Playbook (using a BAR file apk2bar.org) and trying chatting with some women. I cannot count how many times I have created and deleted my account. Each time I have been changing my photos, blurb and even my name.

Initial message conversation with this woman was fun. She seemed quirky enough to be genuine. We met up later in the week at a concert where some of her friends were playing. A concert is a loud enough of a venue where conversation can be impeded, so it wouldn't have been my first choice. However, being able to compromise, and make things work, is what I do. I hope that won't be the cause of my undoing. Being completely unaccomplished, being undone is the least of my concerns.

Cut to the chase : lifestyle - smoking, drinking and not so green or colourful taste in food is a deal breaker. I may sound like a jerk, but I could even imagine myself embracing someone who carries an odor that I turns me off. I know that I don't smell or taste like raspberries and chocolate, nor like mint and basil, but I am physically active, have a vegetable based diet, and have no more than 3 drinks a week. Call me boring, but that is who I am.

The following day, I sent a hello message, saying it was fun, to the woman that I met back through the Tinder application. She replied, and I back to her. I heard nothing back and assumed it was mutual sentiment that it wouldn't work out. The next day, I deleted my account. I sent her my number earlier, if she didn't jot it down, I hope that I should hold myself responsible for having ghosted her!

Links:

http://www.news.com.au/technology/science/research-discovers-dating-someone-who-works-out-makes-you-healthier/story-fnpjxnqt-1227304811584

http://www.quora.com/What-are-the-differences-in-behaviour-and-lifestyle-between-a-fitness-freak-girl-and-a-normal-girl

http://www.mensfitness.com/life/10-habits-youll-pay-10-years/slide/all

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